“My Style Statement has led me to think of many things about my life, the decisions I’ve made for good or ill, and my relationships. I can see when I’ve been true to myself everything is better. Now that I have a concise description of “me,” I can be my true self more consistently in all aspects of my life. Thank you.” - Heather, Cosmopolitan Treasure, Management Consultant, Toronto
“I never go one day without thinking about authenticity and my individual Style Statement “Elegant Discovery”. - Safina Ruda
“You guys are like missionaries for self expression. My Style Statement gives me a better sense of how I can balance the different elements of my aesthetic, and how I can express the different facets of myself in a way that feels both authentic and unique. I really feel unleashed to express my style boldly.” - Yasmina, Contemporary Exotic, Portfolio Manager, New York
“I am very excited both with the process and the results. It was the best fortune cookie I ever tasted! Two simple words on a slip of paper. A winding conversation to get there. I watched with fascination as they came into focus, insinuating towards me with astonishment, they folded right into the heart of me not what I expected beyond.” - Tina
“Thank you. I am still holding my numinous two-word mantra close to myself to see if I can figure out what kind of light it is giving off.” - Cynthia
“Just wanted to say thank you so VERY much for the Style Statement…I’m starting to really feel more balanced and incorporating it into my life…owning it!” - Stacy
“Thank you. Thank you. It was an honor to be guided through this process. (It really, really is an important process. Important because it’s about exploring who one is at core. The originally created one. The wholly/holy one. God-purposed one. The…sacred one.) Thank you. Peace.” - Tamara
“The most unexpected aspect of my Style Statement has been the way it has shifted my focus from “what’s beautiful” to “what’s me.” I no longer get distracted by things that look great but don’t fit with my sense of self.” - Lauren, Timeless Craft, Web Designer, Vancouver
“My style now pertains to all aspects of my life. From a gracious tailored lovely home and a tailored romantic wardrobe to my continuing commitment to my charities. Thank you for helping me find the true Carol. She is not afraid to be the person she was always meant to be, and now is not afraid to live the Tailored Lovely style she has always been inside.” - Carol, Tailored Lovely
“It has already had a significant impact on how I view myself and relate to both people and things. A subtle effect but profound. It is also proving to be a very useful tool in assessing choices. The whole 80/20 thing resonated deeply with me, in terms of having the balance wrong. Too much culture not enough elegance. So I’m working on that….” - Georgia, Elegant Culture, Lawyer/Activist, Hutt, New Zealand
“Sensual Radiance is my Style Statement, and it’s so delicious I just want to eat it up with a spoon!” - Jamie
“I am growing and living in way that delights all aspects of my true self. It feels lovely and empowering to put a name to, embrace and celebrate a completely unique and vital essence of me.” - Joan, Genteel Vitality, Nurse, Vancouver
“I am just in awe of this and of the clarity and direction that my Style Statement has given me. I am eternally grateful.” - Rhonda, Cultivated Vitality, Ottawa
“My Style Statement makes decisions about difficult things incredibly easy. And guess what? Everything I own and love fits my Style Statement…and everything I own and don’t like doesn’t. Like having a personal advisor, it has saved me time and money.” - Andrew, Designed Ease, Film Maker, Vancouver
“In all my decisions, whether what to wear, or important business ideas, I now ask: is that Innovative Feminine? Incorporating my personal brand into everything gives me confidence!” - Melody, Innovative Feminine, Founder of The CraveParty, Seattle
“I have a wonderful life, but I have always felt that I have not been living up to my fullest potential and short change myself and others around me by being slightly out of focus. My Style Statement…Traditional Current…suddenly put my lens into focus on all levels. Traditional. Of course! My heart lives for family, for heritage, for God. I feel most at home when I am at home. I cling to my Italian heritage because it is part of my identity and my way of loving my father who just died. I look best in a classic red Sofia Loren type dress with 1950s peek a boo pumps, and sassy red lipstick. I am attracted to traditional men who have modern sensibilities….I feel more authentic than I ever have.” - Lucia, Traditional Current, Playwright/Actor, Vancouver
“I liken a Style Statement to being reacquainted with a long lost friend. It seems foreign at first, a little unnatural, yet there is something so familiar and strangely comforting. I am now reacquainted with my old self—my confident and fun loving self—I am back!” - Katharine, Elegant Affinity, Executive, Vancouver
“My Style Statement has given me confidence in my personal style and taste and helped me move forward in redesigning my business plan and redecorating my live-work space. No two words have ever been so powerfully and wonderfully effective!” - Sheila, Cultivated Story, Researcher/Writer, Vancouver
“I have found my voice, style, power and grace all over again….It has truly begun to change my life in a wonderful and magical way….Perhaps you have given me the tools to open myself to the world of possibilities or…I have reclaimed my confidence which for one reason or another had lost its luster.” - Rebecca, Elegant Invitation, Event Planner, Connecticut
“I am writing every day to try to get myself sorted out, back to who I am authentically…don’t know where this journey will take me, but I feel a greater sense of direction.” - Joanna, Cultivated Beauty, Realtor/Artist, Gananoque, Ontario
“Owning my own Style Statement, Sophisticated Fresh, has helped make me more comfortable in my own skin. As an interior designer, projecting confidence in my decisions is integral to my ability to communicate with and gain the trust and respect of my clients. Previously, I put too much emphasis on getting people to like me. Changing my focus to Sophisticated Fresh meant quieting my insecurities and the part of my brain that suspected opinions contrary to my own were automatically more valid. Now I listen to the voice that tells me it’s my job to have a strong opinion based on my education, experience and instinct. The end result is that I am increasingly centered and precise in my work and life. I aim to approach all situations with a grace and integrity true to the values I associate with my Style Statement.” - Tanya, Sophisticated Fresh, Interior Designer, Vancouver
“I have a newfound sense of confidence, and have become more straightforward and honest in my dealings with family and friends. I have less confusion about what works for me and what doesn’t, and I have renewed energy to take what does work for me, and make it even better, on a healthier body. I can’t say enough positive things about this experience, and the power it has to cut through all of the internal dialogue and outside noise that we have to sift through every day.” - Tamara, Natural Majestic, Entrepreneur, Vancouver
“My Style Statement helps in steering me toward my true self.” - Belinda, Timeless Radiant, Folk Singer, Vancouver
“With my Style Statement in mind I bought new clothes and the difference was amazing. My creative energy is stronger than I have felt in years. My Style Statement makes me believe in myself again.” - Debra, Refined Glowing, Oakville, Ontario
“Sort of like astute psychoanalysis, Style Statement makes concrete, useful, and practical all the ideas and urges that simmer at the base of your personality. Having dissected what is most important to me and mapped it out, I feel straight as an arrow with my decision-making.” - Kim, Structured Magic, Photographer, Vancouver
“I feel such an incredible connection with my Style Statement; it just seems to fit and is a perfect compass for me.” - Glenda, Tailored Presence, Style consultant, North Vancouver
“At first I was a sceptic, but each time I think of my Style Statement, and how it actually plays out in my life—even without my conscious effort, I just smile.” - Donald, Genuine Legacy, Engineer/Lawyer, Washington, DC
“Discovering my Style Statement ignited my spirit and realigned my essence to my calling. I LOVED IT! And it refreshed my business focus where today…I’ve created more action than in the past month!” - Tamra, Timeless Sacred, Life Coach, Seattle
“It is so amazing how the words resonate with me…in everything I do. I now have these words that guide me in decisions (am I supporting the sensual self? for instance), is this the refined choice (or the trendy, cheaper version)? This is going to free up time and space in my life and I then can concentrate on volunteering or contributing in the community. Living our life freely and authentically is really a gift. Feeling confident about my choices will be sooooo nice!” - Gloria, Refined Sensual, Mother, Port Hope, Ontario
“I feel so clear about who I am and where that can take me! I am doing a collage just for my Style Statement this weekend!” - Tracy, Natural Radiance, Geologist, Vancouver
“I feel much less inclined to compare myself to other people and more inclined to just be who I am in my Classic Gracious way. And, I really think it represents my being, not just my image. When I think about how I operate in the world and within relationships, I feel that I am Classic Gracious. The process opened me up to some new possibilities.” - Cathy, Classic Gracious, Social Worker, Calgary
“My Style Statement has had way more of an impact than I had predicted. It has really changed the way I think about my fashion and what it says about me. You could say it has even caused a bit of a style revolution for me. So thank you, thank you, thank you. It’s like you have trained my eye—brought it into focus—to see exactly what I am looking for regarding fashion.” - Anne-Marie, Feminine Dramatic, University Student, London, Ontario
“The process of discovery was enlightening; ostensibly simple questions that reach to the core of who we are, what we are drawn to, and choices we make because of our style. And then, two words that say it all. Style Statements are a fabulous and unique entry-point tool for succinctly communicating ourselves to others.” - Tiffany, Contemporary Buddhist, Web Designer, Petaluma, California
“I put my Style Statement to the test. In both evaluating the things around my house that I love and out there in the world of “stuff” and images, and it’s true. The things that really feel “like me” or “just right” can be described as Refined Precious. You’re talented and inspiring.” - Emira, Refined Precious, Web Designer, Vancouver
“When I revealed my Style Statement to my husband, he smiled broadly and said, “That’s so you.” My family and friends reacted in a similar way, proving that those two words do reflect my authentic style. My Style Statement is humbling and empowering, and helps me feel greater confidence.” - Maureen, Graceful Radiant, Mother of three, Guelph, Ontario
“I’m kind of speechless when I think of those words to describe myself. Those two words just stand on their own and speak for themselves. Very worth it.” - Nikki, Timeless Beauty, Portland, Oregon
“Wow! A profound message and continuing inner dialogue that is very powerful yet still so amazingly subtle! The seeds of the two simple words are taking root in many aspects of my world. With time at a premium I am finding the Style Statement helps manage how, where and with whom I choose to spend time as opposed to being diverted with what I thought “shouldn’t be missed.” I understand better why I wasn’t getting to or finishing some things and am now working towards completing them. It’s added another piece of peace in my heart.” - Jodi, Graceful Composed, Registered Nutritionist, Markham, Ontario
“Two simple words, cryptic even, they bear the code of all the possibilities of me….” - Tina, Cultured Sensuous, Boutique Owner, Vancouver
“This Style Statement validates exactly who I am. So, this one is to you ladies, for creating such a brilliant peace of art! You’ve created the future for those who have lost themselves or who are afraid to display exactly who they are—this allows them to be…just who they thought they were!” - Leisa, Contemporary Flourish, Charity Program Coordinator, Markham, Ontario
“It’s been fun over the past few days noticing how my Style Statement manifests itself in my home, my clothing, my classroom and daily routine. There are several areas that have too much adventure or not enough, or not enough graceful and they are also the areas with which I’m less happy. How interesting….” - Michelle, Graceful Adventure, Lawyer, Mississauga, Ontario
“I can already feel what a huge impact this work is going to have. Very exciting. I am truly delighted.” - Caroline, Creative Refinement, Life Coach, Los Angeles
“Graceful Invitation, was both an exciting yet sometimes painful discovery for me….Instead of looking after everyone else, I am starting to invite myself into life. I must admit trying new things is sometimes scary….Today, I have invited myself to achieve my goal of health and wellness. I feel more deserving and putting myself first makes me feel more graceful, my true self. My husband has observed a calmer Catherine and this has strengthened our relationship. I am slowly…asking for what makes me happy. He’s thrilled that I am inviting him in! I had forgotten what a wonderful man I had married!…I feel that my authentic self is emerging at the age of 54, clearly never too late! Graceful Invitation will be a lifelong journey for me and I am ever so grateful….” - Catherine, Graceful Invitation, Charity Coordinator, Toronto
“I already feel stirrings of the influence this is going to have on my life.” - Kathleen, Timeless Discovery, Stay-at-home Mom, New York
“I am already deep in thought and recognizing what I need to do and what I have already done without knowing it. I feel a huge value to my Statement, a resonance with my heart, and am inspired to start using it.” - Kaytlyn, Simple Treasure, Web Designer, Bellevue, Washington
“Constructive Graceful…What a powerful experience. Constructive—I got that—analytical, organized, always constructing, linear and focused. But Graceful? Where did that come from? It came from me—it’s been within me all along. Now that I know it consciously I have more power to succeed in my dreams, goals and desires. Graceful is my creative edge, my differentiator, the thing that sets me apart and now that I know it, it informs my decisions, my life, my relationships and how I handle everything. Make the world a better place by knowing who you are first and how you can contribute—this is what I tell my clients, and this is what I’ve learned from Carrie & Danielle.” - Romana, Constructive Graceful, Branding Strategist, New York
“Danielle…I’m so excited now, ready to really implement my Style Statement into my life. It’s only been nine days since we spoke on the phone, but already it has had a huge impact on me. Once again, thank you for showing up in my life!” - Loes, Sacred Discovery, Ireland
“My Style Statement…helps me stay focused; it keeps my warp and weft in line and lets the real me shine through, in all my glorious colors and textures;…made choosing new dinnerware a snap;…helps me decide what my priorities are, helping me to live a more balanced life and therefore be a better mom, wife and friend;…even helps me run my business more smoothly.
My Style Statement is both my anchor that holds me close to my authentic self and my star that I reach for in my dreams.” - Lee-Anne, Cultured Designing, Diversity Trainer, Vancouver
“STYLE STATEMENTS ROCK! All my life I have felt like second place. After experiencing Style Statement…, I knew that life could change. I also knew that I was the only one who could change it….I stopped letting other people tell me that what made my spirit sing didn’t count. I said to myself, start doing what makes you happy and the rest will fall into step….” - Martha, Comfortable Creative, Crafter, Dallas
“My Style Statement helped me reconnect to the power and passions that live inside Traditional Feminine vs. the negative stereotypes I was perpetuating. Knowing my Style Statement and striving to apply it to all areas of my life is definitely helping me reclaim my authentic self and tap into the wellspring of happiness that is our birthright.” - Michelle, Traditional Feminine, Business Advisor and Mom, Vancouver
“My Style Statement is Sophisticated Connection. Sure enough, that’s what I do in my work, that’s how I give gifts, that’s how I engage with my friends—it’s all about connections for me that are meaningful. What the Style Statement process did for me was create a filter to ensure all parts of my life are aligned with who I really am. This helps me be authentic in everything I do! I love it!” - Gregg Brown, Cultivated Connection, Corporate Trainer, Toronto
“Style Statement helped me connect the dots. I recognized—and embraced—my enjoyment of items around me with a history….But in many ways I live my life in an entirely modern way. I run a business, raise my kids and am willing to try any solution, regardless of its provenance. Mostly, I strive to live in the present, and give my time in the moment. I’m not always successful in this, but the goal shines before me, with my Style Statement as a touchstone.” - Erin, Traditional Present, Entrepreneur and Mom, Vancouver
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“I finally received my Style Statement book from Amazon UK and felt I had to write and tell you that it is perhaps the most beautiful book I’ve ever received. The paper is luxurious, the photographs, layout, and design scrumptious, and the new-book scent is beckoning me to dive in. Thanks for creating such an inspiring idea.” - Kristin
“I just finished reading your book. My style is Sophisticated Feminine. It makes so much sense now, my past history, and my personal story. I think this book is very enlightening and I have found it refreshing, clarifying and cathartic (in a good way). Thank you for sharing your wisdom.” - Denise
“Style Statement, is one of my must-haves for the summer. Carrie & Danielle capture the essence of what it means to define ourselves on our own terms.” - Ramona
“Style Statement takes you on a journey of articulating who you are — both the parts of you that are overt, fully formed and figured out; and as importantly, the parts of you that are in your core being but not always out in front for the world (or for you) to see. Two small words are where you end up after going through this delightful and insightful process. Two small words that clearly define who you are inside and outside. I am Constructive Nurture, and since learning this I’ve cleaned out my closet, gotten over morning wardrobe crises, merged my analytical being with my nurturing one, and changed my career focus. It’s spectacularly gratifying and liberating. - Amazon reviewer
“It is so exciting to know that the Style Statement concept speaks to the needs that so many people have in their lives today. What an awesome opportunity. This is just a wonderful experience and such a nice way to get back in touch with oneself.” - Beth
“No kidding, with all the sincerity I am and have, I tell you the truth. …if you want to know at a conscious level how you effect your own story, do the deceptively simple, deeply revealing work to name your own personal style. I thought it was a silliness at first. A new girl fad. Baseless. An expression of the rich West’s fascination with all things narcissistic. But I’ve had my mind changed. One of the wheels within those wheels can be found in the unique work of Carrie McCarthy & Danielle LaPorte. If you’re looking for a fully conscious life, I can highly recommend to you the use of this book. (Or, if you can afford it, a consultation — I have the book.) Life as art. Life lived on purpose. Designed life. Choices instead of mere reactions. An “examined” life lived large. Style before fashion. This is a good book.” - The Recollected Life blog
“I am really enjoying plumbing the depths of my thoughts and feelings to develop my Style Statement. The process is inspiring me, reinvigorating me and helping me to re-discover who I was, am and hope to become! Thank you!” - Beth
“Thank you for creating the Style Statement and thank you for publishing the book so that people everywhere can access this amazing process.” - Kelsey
“The book is lush, weighty in a nice way, and beautifully laid out. Case studies and their simple and direct language make reading the book a little retreat in itself. It seems to be the one that gets pulled off the coffee table the most often with cries of ‘Ooo. What is this?’” - Grace, Timeless Connection
“I received my book and was just amazed!…What I received was so much more than just another book! It has to be one of the best books I have seen in awhile….Every aspect of the book was created with such attention to detail….Once you find your own Style Statement, you can apply it to your personal and professional life. It will help you to brand who you really are….This is such a wonderful concept to explore. If you believe in the positive forces in your life, you will certainly enjoy this book.” - Amazon review
“The book is ravishing. And inspiring. And comforting. And grounding. And just the loveliest thing I have seen since - well, I don’t know when. The first copy I bought was a birthday gift for a friend. But when I got it home and opened it up, I couldn’t put it down. So I got another one for her. And one for my mom. And then one for a cancer coach pal of mine.” - Susan
“Style Statement is the truth! It addresses the whole person not just parts of you. I am forever grateful for this fantastic, amazing, wonderful, exciting discovery. THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” - Tamika
“I stumbled upon this yummy new book called “Style Statement” by Carrie McCarthy and Danielle LaPorte. As I was reading it, I kept thinking of ladies in my life who NEED this book. I briefly thought of buying dozens of copies and giving them away as gifts for the next few years…” - Melissa
“THIS BOOK IS AMAZING!!!! They ask all the right questions, the layout is brilliant, and the writing and phrasing are fantastic. This book makes it so easy to discover things about yourself that you never knew existed or perhaps were subconsciously covered up. What I loved about the book was the sense of control and freedom I had throughout the exercises!“ - Joshua
“My Style Statement has become a badge I am proud of that I am a balance of two things that need each other to co-exist. I am still working on the balance of learning when the stubborn part of my statement has gone too far and when the playful is an escape rather than the honest outgoing person I know I am. I really think that my style statement has shown me a side of me I wasn’t ready to admit but am comforted in finding.” - Gina, Enduring Playful
“Read a fun book over the weekend - “Style Statement” by Carrie McCarthy and Danielle LaPorte. It’s a pretty book - lovely photos, lots of white space. Along the lines of The Artist’s Way, it contains journaling exercises to help boil down your personal essence into two words. These two-word expression of yourself can help you decide what color to paint your living room, what to invest in, what to wear, etc. Perhaps you are Feminine Dramatic, Sophisticated Fresh, Elegant Culture, or Enduring Bold.
It explained to me why I love my new neutral bedroom and bath, made shimmery with glass and mirrors. My mother, on the other hand, says “you know, you don’t have to paint everything beige!” - Amazon reviewer
“Particularly potent are the often-probing questions, covering most every aspect of life. … I thoroughly enjoyed reading (actually, experiencing) this book and recommend it to anyone who is interested in a more profound understanding of who you are. Discover how potent two simple words of your choosing can be in helping you intentionally create your optimum life.” - Nancy McMoneagle for www.ivanhoe.com
“I just wanted to write and tell you how blown away I am with your book! . I was going through it on the way to work today and getting goosebumps - it…feels like it is exactly what I was looking for. Thanks so much for the great piece of work!” - P.F. (early 50’s, and finally finding my true self)
“OUTSTANDING! This book is a clearly written and informative instruction tool through which you uncover your authentic self, for and to yourself. As a Certified Image Consultant, I found the material to be beautifully presented in a user friendly way. The value found through these discoveries will change your life. Bravo, Carrie and Danielle!” - Joanne
“Wow all I can say is Wow. I’m about half way through Style Statement. I go to bed and wake up thinking about it. Yes, as I would be delighted to find that you are well aware it is that FANTASTIC. I got it two weeks ago and I have been meeting the dawn with four year old on Christmas morning anticipation and excitement since. I am really and truly exceptionally grateful to you Carrie and Danielle. Please know that what you are doing is nurturing, inspiring intriguing, and overflowing our cups.” - Kara
“With time at a premium I am finding the ’style statement’ helps manage how, where and with whom I choose to spend time as opposed to being diverted with what I thought ’shouldn’t be missed’. I understand better why I wasn’t getting to or finishing some things and am now working towards completing them. It’s added another piece of peace in my heart.” - Jodi
“Can I just say that you two are amazing! I am loving your new website, the book, the daily Q&A. Your work, your message, the way you do what you do is just spot-on. My Style Statement was unearthed during a lovely appointment with Carrie a few months ago (Timeless Discovery). I continue to joyfully explore what I love, why I love it and what it means to create a life in full bloom.” - Kathleen
“I am thoroughly enjoying the book. It’s such great insight into my personality with the questions - everything is thought provoking, and the biggest lesson I’ve learned is that I need to let go and I need to allow my thoughts, feelings… my entire self become more free-flowing.” - Tabitha
“I have a newfound confidence in myself…that others cannot give me..but Carrie & Danielle provided for me via their book Style Statement.” - Lea
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“Carrie McCarthy and Danielle LaPorte redefine the concept of style. [They] approach the topic from an inquisitive role—a happy departure for the “wear this” dictates we often get from the fashion industry.” - Body + Soul Magazine
“From editing your life, to following your dreams, to going for quality, Carrie and Danielle tell you how.” - House & Home
“What would you say if you could answer a series of questions that would open up your life? What if one book could serve as tour guide into your soul, offering up an intimate inquiry into the look, feel, spirit of your life? Style Statement is that book, a Proustian questionnaire for the modern age, that has successfully connected hundreds of women—and men with their authentic selves.” - Veronica Chambers, author of Kickboxing Geishas and Miss Black America
“Wouldn’t you love to have a style angel sitting on your shoulder as you make your way through life? That guidance is what Style Statement offers.” – Canadian Living